Conversation Quotes

Most popular conversation quotes

Silence is one great art of conversation. - William Hazlitt quote.
Silence is one great art of conversation.

silence

One evening's conversation with a superior man is better than ten years of study.
— Chinese proverb

Chinese proverbs proverbs

The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing in the right place, but to leave unsaid the wrong thing in a tempting moment.

holding your tongue

One of the best rules in conversation is never to say a thing which any of the company can reasonably wish had been left unsaid. - Jonathan Swift quote.
One of the best rules in conversation is never to say a thing which any of the company can reasonably wish had been left unsaid.

holding your tongue

Conversation is a verbal exchange of 90% talking and 10% listening.

listening

If a wise man's way you wisely seek,
Five things observe with care:
Of whom you speak, to whom you speak,
And how, and when, and where.

wisdom

Conversation would be vastly improved by the constant use of four simple words: "I do not know." - Andre Maurois quote.
Conversation would be vastly improved by the constant use of four simple words: "I do not know."
A gossip is one who talks about others; a bore is one who talks about himself; and a brilliant conversationalist is one who talks to you about yourself.

boring people gossip

The reason why so few people are agreeable in conversation is that each is thinking more about what he intends to say than about what the other is saying. - François de La Rochefoucauld quote.
The reason why so few people are agreeable in conversation is that each is thinking more about what he intends to say than about what the other is saying.
Good nature is more agreeable in conversation than wit, and gives a certain expression to the face which is more amiable than beauty. - George Ade quote.
Good nature is more agreeable in conversation than wit, and gives a certain expression to the face which is more amiable than beauty.
Subtlety is the art of saying what you think and getting out of range before it is understood.

subtlety

People will listen a great deal more patiently while you explain your mistakes than when you explain your successes.

mistakes

No man would listen to you if he didn't know it was his turn next. - E. W. Howe quote.
No man would listen to you if he didn't know it was his turn next.

listening

The opposite of talking isn't listening. The opposite of talking is waiting. - Fran Lebowitz quote.
The opposite of talking isn't listening. The opposite of talking is waiting.

listening

Wit is the salt of conversation, not the food. - William Hazlitt quote.
Wit is the salt of conversation, not the food.

wit

The worst part of an eminent man's conversation is, nine times out of ten, to be found in that part which he means to be clever. - Edward Bulwer-Lytton quote.
The worst part of an eminent man's conversation is, nine times out of ten, to be found in that part which he means to be clever.
The more the pleasures of the body fade away, the greater to me is the pleasure and charm of conversation. - Plato quote.
The more the pleasures of the body fade away, the greater to me is the pleasure and charm of conversation.
Would it be possible for us to be more attentive to what we say to others and what we don't say? - Pope Francis quote.
Would it be possible for us to be more attentive to what we say to others and what we don't say?
Pope Francis Annual Message to Educational Communities, Easter 2002

mindfulness

In order to have dialogue, you have to know how to lower your defenses, open the doors of your home, and offer human warmth. - Pope Francis quote.
In order to have dialogue, you have to know how to lower your defenses, open the doors of your home, and offer human warmth.
True growth in human consciousness cannot be founded on anything other than the practice of dialogue and love. - Pope Francis quote.
True growth in human consciousness cannot be founded on anything other than the practice of dialogue and love.
Pope Francis Annual Message to Educational Communities, Easter 2002
It's all right to hold a conversation, but you should let go of it now and then.
One way to prevent conversation from being boring is to say the wrong thing.
The first requirement of good conversation is that nobody should know what is coming next.
Conversation means being able to disagree and still continue the discussion.
Too much agreement kills a chat. - Eldridge Cleaver quote.
Too much agreement kills a chat.
A letter is a soliloquy, but a letter with a postscript is a conversation. - Lin Yutang quote.
A letter is a soliloquy, but a letter with a postscript is a conversation.

letters

Parents can plant magic in a child's mind through certain words spoken with some thrilling quality of voice, some uplift of the heart and spirit.

communication parenting

Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee, and just as hard to sleep after. - Anne Morrow Lindbergh quote.
Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee, and just as hard to sleep after.

communication

Silence, along with modesty, is a great aid to conversation. - Michel de Montaigne quote.
Silence, along with modesty, is a great aid to conversation.

silence modesty

Silence is the safety zone of conversation. - Arnold H. Glasow quote.
Silence is the safety zone of conversation.

silence

Saying what we think gives a wider range of conversation than saying what we know.

speak your mind

To disagree, one doesn't have to be disagreeable. - Barry Goldwater quote.
To disagree, one doesn't have to be disagreeable.

disagreement

The wit of conversation consists more in finding it in others than in showing a great deal yourself. - Jean de La Bruyère quote.
The wit of conversation consists more in finding it in others than in showing a great deal yourself.

wit

Ideal conversation must be an exchange of thought, and not, as many of those who worry most about their shortcomings believe, an eloquent exhibition of wit or oratory. - Emily Post quote.
Ideal conversation must be an exchange of thought, and not, as many of those who worry most about their shortcomings believe, an eloquent exhibition of wit or oratory.
Nothing a man writes can please him as profoundly as something he does with his back, shoulders and hands. For writing is an artificial activity. It is a lonely and private substitute for conversation. - Brooks Atkinson quote.
Nothing a man writes can please him as profoundly as something he does with his back, shoulders and hands. For writing is an artificial activity. It is a lonely and private substitute for conversation.

writing

CONVERSATION PEACE

There is a certain
labor-saving notion,
dear to a lazy-minded
generation,
that if you can but
keep your mouth in motion,
then every breath you take
is conversation.

funny

Argument, as usually managed, is the worst sort of conversation; as it is generally in books the worst sort of reading. - Jonathan Swift quote.
Argument, as usually managed, is the worst sort of conversation; as it is generally in books the worst sort of reading.

arguments

Our companions please us less from the charms we find in their conversation than from those they find in ours.
Fulke Greville Maxims, Characters, and Reflections: Critical, Satirical, and Moral

charm

My God! The English language is a form of communication!  Conversation isn't just crossfire where you shoot and get shot at!  Where you've got to duck for your life and aim to kill!  Words aren't only bombs and bullets—no, they're little gifts, containing meanings! - Philip Roth quote.
My God! The English language is a form of communication!  Conversation isn't just crossfire where you shoot and get shot at!  Where you've got to duck for your life and aim to kill!  Words aren't only bombs and bullets—no, they're little gifts, containing meanings!

communication

Love and the union of love is impossible without conversation. - Mortimer Adler quote.
Love and the union of love is impossible without conversation.

love

Among the Ibo the art of conversation is regarded very highly, and proverbs are the palm-oil with which words are eaten. - Chinua Achebe quote.
Among the Ibo the art of conversation is regarded very highly, and proverbs are the palm-oil with which words are eaten.

proverbs

Debate is masculine; conversation is feminine. - A. Bronson Alcott quote.
Debate is masculine; conversation is feminine.
Someone has said that conversation is sex for the soul. - Isabel Allende quote.
Someone has said that conversation is sex for the soul.
It is all right to hold a conversation but you should let go of it now and then.
Improvisation is the essence of good talk.  Heaven defend us from the talker who doles out things prepared for us! - Sir Max Beerbohm quote.
Improvisation is the essence of good talk.  Heaven defend us from the talker who doles out things prepared for us!

talking

Conversation, n. A fair for the display of the minor mental commodities, each exhibitor being too intent upon the arrangement of his own wares to observe those of his neighbor. - Ambrose Bierce quote.
Conversation, n. A fair for the display of the minor mental commodities, each exhibitor being too intent upon the arrangement of his own wares to observe those of his neighbor.
The true spirit of conversation consists in building on another man's observation, not overturning it. - Edward Bulwer-Lytton quote.
The true spirit of conversation consists in building on another man's observation, not overturning it.
Conversation is the music of the mind, an intellectual orchestra, where all the instruments should bear a part, but where none should play together. - C. C. Colton quote.
Conversation is the music of the mind, an intellectual orchestra, where all the instruments should bear a part, but where none should play together.
Conversation . . . is the art of never appearing a bore, of knowing how to say everything interestingly, to entertain with no matter what, to be charming with nothing at all.
There is no arena in which vanity displays itself under such a variety of forms as in conversation. - Madame de Stael quote.
There is no arena in which vanity displays itself under such a variety of forms as in conversation.

vanity

No one can become a good conversationalist without tact. It is the sensitive touch that recognizes when a subject has become distasteful, which sees the eagerness of someone else to say something, which notes the slightest cloud of expression crossing another's face.

tact

Conversation is like a dance, taking turns, following and leading.
The art of conversation, or the qualifications for a good companion, is a certain self-control, which now holds the subject, now lets it go, with a respect for the emergencies of the moment. - Ralph Waldo Emerson quote.
The art of conversation, or the qualifications for a good companion, is a certain self-control, which now holds the subject, now lets it go, with a respect for the emergencies of the moment.
Conversation is an art in which a man has all mankind for his competitors, for it is that which they are practicing every day while they live. - Ralph Waldo Emerson quote.
Conversation is an art in which a man has all mankind for his competitors, for it is that which they are practicing every day while they live.
The best of life is conversation, and the greatest success is confidence, or perfect understanding between sincere people. - Ralph Waldo Emerson quote.
The best of life is conversation, and the greatest success is confidence, or perfect understanding between sincere people.
How time flies when you's doin' all the talking.
In conversation and prayer, say less and listen more.
Conversation is the legs on which thought walks; and writing, the wings by which it flies. - Lady Blessington quote.
Conversation is the legs on which thought walks; and writing, the wings by which it flies.

thoughts writing

Conversation enriches the understanding, but solitude is the school of genius. - Edward Gibbon quote.
Conversation enriches the understanding, but solitude is the school of genius.

solitude genius understanding

One is always wrong to open a conversation with the devil, for, however he goes about it, he always insists upon having the last word. - André Gide quote.
One is always wrong to open a conversation with the devil, for, however he goes about it, he always insists upon having the last word.
In conversation, discretion is more important than eloquence. - Baltasar Gracian quote.
In conversation, discretion is more important than eloquence.

discretion eloquence

The soul of conversation is sympathy. - William Hazlitt quote.
The soul of conversation is sympathy.
Inject a few raisins of conversation into the tasteless dough of existence. - O. Henry quote.
Inject a few raisins of conversation into the tasteless dough of existence.
O. Henry The Voice of the City: Further Voices of the Four Million
The perfection of conversational intercourse is when the breeding of high life is animated by the fervor of genius. - Leigh Hunt quote.
The perfection of conversational intercourse is when the breeding of high life is animated by the fervor of genius.
If you are ever at a loss to support a flagging conversation, introduce the subject of eating. - Leigh Hunt quote.
If you are ever at a loss to support a flagging conversation, introduce the subject of eating.

eating

The conversational overachiever is someone whose grasp exceeds his reach. This is possible but not attractive. - Fran Lebowitz quote.
The conversational overachiever is someone whose grasp exceeds his reach. This is possible but not attractive.
The opposite of talking isn't listening.  The opposite of talking is waiting.

talking listening

Conversation is like a dear little baby that is brought in to be handed around.  You must rock it, nurse it, keep it on the move if you want to keep smiling. - Katherine Mansfield quote.
Conversation is like a dear little baby that is brought in to be handed around.  You must rock it, nurse it, keep it on the move if you want to keep smiling.
Conversation consists of developing and playing with ideas by juxtaposing the accumulated conclusions of two or more people and then improvising on them. - Judith Martin quote.
Conversation consists of developing and playing with ideas by juxtaposing the accumulated conclusions of two or more people and then improvising on them.
In married conversation, as in surgery, the knife must be used with care. - Andre Maurois quote.
In married conversation, as in surgery, the knife must be used with care.

marriage

Have you ever noticed that most conversations are simply monologues delivered in the presence of a witness?
The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing in the right place, but, far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.
Question and answer is not a civilized form of conversation.

asking questions

Wit in conversation is only a readiness of thought and a facility of expression, or (in the midwives' phrase) a quick conception, and an easy delivery. - Alexander Pope quote.
Wit in conversation is only a readiness of thought and a facility of expression, or (in the midwives' phrase) a quick conception, and an easy delivery.

wit

It is not what we learn in conversation that enriches us.  It is the elation that comes of swift contact with the tingling currents of thought. - Agnes Repplier quote.
It is not what we learn in conversation that enriches us.  It is the elation that comes of swift contact with the tingling currents of thought.
Whoever interrupts the conversation of others to make a display of his own fund of knowledge, makes notorious his own stock of ignorance.
Marriage is one long conversation, chequered by disputes. - Robert Louis Stevenson quote.
Marriage is one long conversation, chequered by disputes.

marriage

Each person's life is lived as a series of conversations. - Deborah Tannen quote.
Each person's life is lived as a series of conversations.
Deborah Tannen You Just Don’t Understand: Men and Women in Conversation

life

All conversations are but debates. - Mark Twain quote.
All conversations are but debates.
Sex is a conversation carried out by other means. - Peter Ustinov quote.
Sex is a conversation carried out by other means.

sex

Modest egotism is the salt of conversation; you do not want too much of it, but if it is altogether omitted, everything tastes flat. - Henry van Dyke quote.
Modest egotism is the salt of conversation; you do not want too much of it, but if it is altogether omitted, everything tastes flat.
Lettuce is like conversation: it must be fresh and crisp, and so sparkling that you scarcely notice the bitter in it. - Charles Warner quote.
Lettuce is like conversation: it must be fresh and crisp, and so sparkling that you scarcely notice the bitter in it.
Conversation should be like juggling; up go the balls and the plates, up and over, in and out, good solid objects that glitter in the footlights and fall with a bang if you miss them. - Evelyn Waugh quote.
Conversation should be like juggling; up go the balls and the plates, up and over, in and out, good solid objects that glitter in the footlights and fall with a bang if you miss them.
There is no such thing as conversation.  It is an illusion.  There are intersecting monologues, that is all. - Rebecca West quote.
There is no such thing as conversation.  It is an illusion.  There are intersecting monologues, that is all.
She wanted to get away from herself, and conversation was the only means of escape that she knew. - Edith Wharton quote.
She wanted to get away from herself, and conversation was the only means of escape that she knew.
Ah, good conversation—there's nothing like it, is there?  The air of ideas is the only air worth breathing. - Edith Wharton quote.
Ah, good conversation—there's nothing like it, is there?  The air of ideas is the only air worth breathing.

ideas

Human conversation is the most ancient and easiest way to cultivate the conditions for change—personal change, community and organizational change, planetary change.
Ultimately, the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or friendship, is conversation. - Oscar Wilde quote.
Ultimately, the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or friendship, is conversation.

friendship marriage

After all, the only proper intoxication is conversation. - Oscar Wilde quote.
After all, the only proper intoxication is conversation.
Conversation about the weather is the last refuge of the unimaginative. - Oscar Wilde quote.
Conversation about the weather is the last refuge of the unimaginative.

small talk

In a good conversation, it is often the most significant that will remain undiscussed.