Self-control Quotes

Most popular self-control quotes

No man is free who cannot command himself. - Pythagoras quote.
No man is free who cannot command himself.
Self-respect is the fruit of discipline; the sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself. - Abraham Joshua Heschel quote.
Self-respect is the fruit of discipline; the sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself.

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No man is fit to command another that cannot command himself. - William Penn quote.
No man is fit to command another that cannot command himself.
I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is the victory over self. - Aristotle quote.
I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is the victory over self.

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The discipline of desire is the backbone of character. - Will Durant quote.
The discipline of desire is the backbone of character.
Will Durant The Story of Civilization: The Age of Louis XIV

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Freedom is not procured by a full enjoyment of what is desired, but by controlling the desire. - Epictetus quote.
Freedom is not procured by a full enjoyment of what is desired, but by controlling the desire.

desire freedom

Self-discipline is the free man's yoke.  Either he is his own master or he will be his own slave—not merely as slave to his passions, as an earlier generation might have feared, but a slave to his unbounded ego. - John W. Gardner quote.
Self-discipline is the free man's yoke.  Either he is his own master or he will be his own slave—not merely as slave to his passions, as an earlier generation might have feared, but a slave to his unbounded ego.

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I cannot conceive of a good life which isn't, in some sense, a self-disciplined life.
Philip Toynbee The Distant Drum: Reflections on the Spanish Civil War

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In reading the lives of great men, I found that the first victory they won was over themselves and their carnal urges.  Self-discipline with all of them came first. - Harry S. Truman quote.
In reading the lives of great men, I found that the first victory they won was over themselves and their carnal urges.  Self-discipline with all of them came first.

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There never has been, and cannot be, a good life without self-control.  Apart from self-control, no good life is imaginable.  The attainment of goodness must begin with that. - Leo Tolstoy quote.
There never has been, and cannot be, a good life without self-control.  Apart from self-control, no good life is imaginable.  The attainment of goodness must begin with that.

Goodness

He who reigns within himself, and rules
Passions, desires, and fears, is more than a king. - John Milton quote.
He who reigns within himself, and rules
Passions, desires, and fears, is more than a king.

passion

Ultimately, the only power to which man should aspire is that which he exercises over himself. - Elie Wiesel quote.
Ultimately, the only power to which man should aspire is that which he exercises over himself.

power

A little kingdom I possess,
Where thoughts and feelings dwell;
And very hard the task I find
Of governing it well. - Louisa May Alcott quote.
A little kingdom I possess,
Where thoughts and feelings dwell;
And very hard the task I find
Of governing it well.
It is a question whether the great majority of people do not ruin their lives and mar their happiness by lack of self-control. - James Allen quote.
It is a question whether the great majority of people do not ruin their lives and mar their happiness by lack of self-control.
Calmness of mind is one of the beautiful jewels of wisdom. It is the result of long and patient effort in self-control. - James Allen quote.
Calmness of mind is one of the beautiful jewels of wisdom. It is the result of long and patient effort in self-control.
I am,
indeed,
a king,
because I know how to rule myself. - Pietro Aretino quote.
I am,
indeed,
a king,
because I know how to rule myself.
If, in a word, it be in our power to do what is noble and what is disgraceful, it is equally in our power not to do it. - Aristotle quote.
If, in a word, it be in our power to do what is noble and what is disgraceful, it is equally in our power not to do it.
No man is such a conqueror as the man who has defeated himself. - Henry Ward Beecher quote.
No man is such a conqueror as the man who has defeated himself.
He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.

proverbs biblical

Strict exercise of self-control is an essential feature of the Christian's life. - Dietrich Bonhoeffer quote.
Strict exercise of self-control is an essential feature of the Christian's life.
Nothing ever really sets human nature free, but self-control. - Phyllis Bottome quote.
Nothing ever really sets human nature free, but self-control.
Prudent, cautious self-control
Is wisdom's root. - Robert Burns quote.
Prudent, cautious self-control
Is wisdom's root.
Is there no danger of our self-control degenerating into tyranny?  A man may lay severe rules on himself as truly as another may. - William Ellery Channing quote.
Is there no danger of our self-control degenerating into tyranny?  A man may lay severe rules on himself as truly as another may.
William Ellery Channing Dr. Channing’s Note-Book: Passages from the Unpublished Manuscripts of William Ellery Channing
The highest possible stage in moral culture is when we recognize that we ought to control our own thoughts.
You can have neither a greater nor a less dominion than over yourself. - Leonardo da Vinci quote.
You can have neither a greater nor a less dominion than over yourself.
As far as your self-control goes, as far goes your freedom. - Marie von Eschenbach quote.
As far as your self-control goes, as far goes your freedom.
Educate your children to self-control, to the habit of holding passion and prejudice and evil tendencies subject to an upright and reasoning will, and you have done much to abolish misery from their future and crimes from society. - Tyron Edwards quote.
Educate your children to self-control, to the habit of holding passion and prejudice and evil tendencies subject to an upright and reasoning will, and you have done much to abolish misery from their future and crimes from society.
Everything that frees our spirit without giving us control of ourselves is ruinous. - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe quote.
Everything that frees our spirit without giving us control of ourselves is ruinous.
Self-control, in every station and to every individual, is indispensable, if people would retain that equanimity of mind, which, depending on self-respect, is the essential of contentment and happiness. - Sarah Josepha Hale quote.
Self-control, in every station and to every individual, is indispensable, if people would retain that equanimity of mind, which, depending on self-respect, is the essential of contentment and happiness.
Self-discipline without talent can often achieve astounding results, whereas talent without self-discipline inevitably dooms itself to failure. - Sydney Harris quote.
Self-discipline without talent can often achieve astounding results, whereas talent without self-discipline inevitably dooms itself to failure.
Discipline comes through self-control. If you do not conquer self, you will be conquered by self.  You may see at one and the same time both your best friend and your greatest enemy, by stepping in front of a mirror. - Napoleon Hill quote.
Discipline comes through self-control. If you do not conquer self, you will be conquered by self.  You may see at one and the same time both your best friend and your greatest enemy, by stepping in front of a mirror.
The control of our being is not unlike the combination of a safe.  One turn of the know rarely unlocks the safe.  Each advance and retreat is a step toward one's goal. - Eric Hoffer quote.
The control of our being is not unlike the combination of a safe.  One turn of the know rarely unlocks the safe.  Each advance and retreat is a step toward one's goal.
Rule your mind, which, if it is not your servant, is your master. - Horace quote.
Rule your mind, which, if it is not your servant, is your master.
He who overcomes others is strong, but he who overcomes himself is mightier still. - Lao Tzu quote.
He who overcomes others is strong, but he who overcomes himself is mightier still.
The middle gear of any man is self-discipline. - John le Carré quote.
The middle gear of any man is self-discipline.
I cannot consent to place in the control of others one who cannot control himself. - Robert E. Lee quote.
I cannot consent to place in the control of others one who cannot control himself.
Robert E. Lee Personal Reminiscences, Anecdotes, and Letters of Gen. Robert E. Lee
Such power there is in clear-eyed self-restraint. - James Russell Lowell quote.
Such power there is in clear-eyed self-restraint.
Self-control is at the root of all the virtues.  Let a man yield to his impulses and passions, and from that moment he gives up his moral freedom. - Orison Swett Marden quote.
Self-control is at the root of all the virtues.  Let a man yield to his impulses and passions, and from that moment he gives up his moral freedom.
He that would govern others, first should be
The master of himself.
Self-control might be as passionate and as active as the surrender to passion. - W. Somerset Maugham quote.
Self-control might be as passionate and as active as the surrender to passion.
The success of life, the formation of character, is in proportion to the courage one has to say to one's ownself: "Thou shalt not."
Carry Nation The Use and Need of the Life of Carry A. Nation
The poorest education that teaches self-control is better than the best that neglects it.
He who cannot obey himself will be commanded.  That is the nature of living creatures. - Friedrich Nietzsche quote.
He who cannot obey himself will be commanded.  That is the nature of living creatures.
It is a new road to happiness, if you have strength enough to castigate a little the various impulses that sway you in turn. - George Santayana quote.
It is a new road to happiness, if you have strength enough to castigate a little the various impulses that sway you in turn.
Man who man would be,
Must rule the empire of himself. - P. B. Shelley quote.
Man who man would be,
Must rule the empire of himself.
A little self-control at the right moment may prevent much subsequent compulsion at the hands of others. - Arthur Schopenhauer quote.
A little self-control at the right moment may prevent much subsequent compulsion at the hands of others.
What now is the most important attribute of man as a moral being?  May we not answer—the faculty of self-control? This it is which forms a chief distinction between the human being and the brute. - Herbert Spencer quote.
What now is the most important attribute of man as a moral being?  May we not answer—the faculty of self-control? This it is which forms a chief distinction between the human being and the brute.
Herbert Spencer Social Statics: Or, the Conditions Essential to Human Happiness
Self-reverence, self-knowledge, self-control,
These three alone lead life to sovereign power.

know yourself

Who has a fiercer struggle than he who strives to conquer himself? - Thomas à Kempis quote.
Who has a fiercer struggle than he who strives to conquer himself?

struggle

Self-control is the chief element in self-respect, and self-respect is the chief element in courage. - Thucydides quote.
Self-control is the chief element in self-respect, and self-respect is the chief element in courage.
I have observed that those who have accomplished the greatest results are those...who never grow excited or lose self-control, but are always calm, self-possessed, patient, and polite. - Booker T. Washington quote.
I have observed that those who have accomplished the greatest results are those...who never grow excited or lose self-control, but are always calm, self-possessed, patient, and polite.
There is no liberty, save wisdom and self-control. Liberty is within—not without. It is each man's own affair. - H. G. Wells quote.
There is no liberty, save wisdom and self-control. Liberty is within—not without. It is each man's own affair.
A man who is master of himself can end a sorrow as easily as he can invent a pleasure. - Oscar Wilde quote.
A man who is master of himself can end a sorrow as easily as he can invent a pleasure.

sorrow

Man's many desires are like the small metal coins he carries about in his pocket. The more he has the more they weigh him down.

desire

Stop allowing your mind to be a slave, to be jerked about by selfish impulses, to kick against fate and the present, and to mistrust the future. - Marcus Aurelius quote.
Stop allowing your mind to be a slave, to be jerked about by selfish impulses, to kick against fate and the present, and to mistrust the future.

attitude mind

To enjoy good health, to bring true happiness to one's family, to bring peace to all, one must first discipline and control one's own mind. If a man can control his mind he can find the way to Enlightenment and all wisdom and virtue will naturally come to him. - Gautama Buddha quote.
To enjoy good health, to bring true happiness to one's family, to bring peace to all, one must first discipline and control one's own mind. If a man can control his mind he can find the way to Enlightenment and all wisdom and virtue will naturally come to him.
Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power. - Lao Tzu quote.
Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power.

power

The power of man has grown in every sphere, except over himself. - Winston Churchill quote.
The power of man has grown in every sphere, except over himself.
Something in human nature causes us to start slacking off at our moment of greatest accomplishment. As you become successful, you will need a great deal of self-discipline not to lose your sense of balance, humility, and commitment. - H. Ross Perot quote.
Something in human nature causes us to start slacking off at our moment of greatest accomplishment. As you become successful, you will need a great deal of self-discipline not to lose your sense of balance, humility, and commitment.

success

The first and greatest victory is to conquer yourself; to be conquered by yourself is of all things most shameful and vile. - Plato quote.
The first and greatest victory is to conquer yourself; to be conquered by yourself is of all things most shameful and vile.