Rollo May Quotes

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One does not become fully human painlessly. - Rollo May quote.
One does not become fully human painlessly.
— Rollo May Existential-Phenomenological Alternatives for Psychology

pain mankind becoming growth

Hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is. - Rollo May quote.
Hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is.

apathy

There is no meaningful yes unless the individual could also have said no. - Rollo May quote.
There is no meaningful yes unless the individual could also have said no.
— Rollo May Power and Innocence: A Search for the Sources of Violence

saying no saying Yes

Care is a state in which something does matter; it is the source of human tenderness. - Rollo May quote.
Care is a state in which something does matter; it is the source of human tenderness.
— Rollo May Quote Unquote

caring

It is an old and ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way. - Rollo May quote.
It is an old and ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.

losing our way

Purpose in the human being is a much more complex phenomenon than what used to be called will power. - Rollo May quote.
Purpose in the human being is a much more complex phenomenon than what used to be called will power.
— Rollo May The Courage to Create

purpose of life willpower

Depression can be usefully seen, from one point of view, as the inability to see or construct a future. - Rollo May quote.
Depression can be usefully seen, from one point of view, as the inability to see or construct a future.

depression

Freedom is man's capacity to take a hand in his own development.  It is our capacity to mold ourselves. - Rollo May quote.
Freedom is man's capacity to take a hand in his own development.  It is our capacity to mold ourselves.
— Rollo May Man’s Search for Himself

freedom

The past has meaning as it lights up the present, and the future as it makes the present richer and more profound. - Rollo May quote.
The past has meaning as it lights up the present, and the future as it makes the present richer and more profound.
— Rollo May Man’s Search for Meaning

the past future

Finding the center of strength within ourselves is in the long run the best contribution we can make to our fellow men. - Rollo May quote.
Finding the center of strength within ourselves is in the long run the best contribution we can make to our fellow men.
— Rollo May Man’s Search for Himself

Strength

If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself. - Rollo May quote.
If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
— Rollo May The Courage to Create

originality individuality authenticity

Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. - Rollo May quote.
Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us.
— Rollo May The Courage to Create

risk-taking intimacy

Joy, rather than happiness, is the goal of life, for joy is the emotion which accompanies our fulfilling our natures as human beings. - Rollo May quote.
Joy, rather than happiness, is the goal of life, for joy is the emotion which accompanies our fulfilling our natures as human beings.
— Rollo May Man’s Search For Himself

joy

Human freedom involves our capacity to pause between stimulus and response and, in that pause, to choose the one response toward which we wish to throw our weight. - Rollo May quote.
Human freedom involves our capacity to pause between stimulus and response and, in that pause, to choose the one response toward which we wish to throw our weight.
— Rollo May The Courage to Create

freedom

Courage is not a virtue or value among other personal values like love or fidelity.  It is the foundation that underlies and gives reality to all other virtues and personal values. - Rollo May quote.
Courage is not a virtue or value among other personal values like love or fidelity.  It is the foundation that underlies and gives reality to all other virtues and personal values.
— Rollo May The Courage to Create

courage

It is highly significant, and indeed almost a rule, that moral courage has its source in identification through one's own sensitivity with the suffering of one's fellow human beings. - Rollo May quote.
It is highly significant, and indeed almost a rule, that moral courage has its source in identification through one's own sensitivity with the suffering of one's fellow human beings.
— Rollo May The Courage to Create

courage

Artists are generally soft-spoken persons who are concerned with their inner visions and images. But that is precisely what makes them feared by any coercive society. For they are the bearers of the human being's age-old capacity to be insurgent. - Rollo May quote.
Artists are generally soft-spoken persons who are concerned with their inner visions and images. But that is precisely what makes them feared by any coercive society. For they are the bearers of the human being's age-old capacity to be insurgent.
— Rollo May The Courage to Create

artists

If any organism fails to fulfill its potentialities, it becomes sick, just as your legs would wither if you never walked.  But the power of your legs is not all you would lose.  The flowing of your blood, your heart action, your whole organism would be the weaker. - Rollo May quote.
If any organism fails to fulfill its potentialities, it becomes sick, just as your legs would wither if you never walked.  But the power of your legs is not all you would lose.  The flowing of your blood, your heart action, your whole organism would be the weaker.
— Rollo May Man’s Search for Himself

potential

Tenderness emerges from the fact that the two persons, longing, as all individuals do, to overcome the separateness and isolation to which we are all heir because we are individuals, can participate in a relationship that, for the moment, is not of two isolated selves but a union. - Rollo May quote.
Tenderness emerges from the fact that the two persons, longing, as all individuals do, to overcome the separateness and isolation to which we are all heir because we are individuals, can participate in a relationship that, for the moment, is not of two isolated selves but a union.